6 Tips for Dealing With Crowds
Do you ever start to feel panicked when you’re in a crowd? Does coming to the state fair simultaneously make you very excited and very anxious?
If so, you are not alone. Dealing with crowds can be uncomfortable for many people and stir up various emotions. Sometimes big crowds and large events can be overstimulating.
Keep reading for helpful tips from Dr. Karin Ryan so you can feel calm and at ease when dealing with crowds.
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1. Anticipate It
If you are planning to go to a crowded place, anticipate it. When you know you’re going to a large event like the fair, be aware of the crowds and visualize yourself staying calm, managing the lines, taking time to walk around, and being near others.
2. Check In With Your Body
Taking short, shallow breaths is common when you’re anxious and overwhelmed. To reconnect with your body, the first thing you can do is to slow down and take a deep breath. Release any tension and continue to take deep breaths.
When dealing with crowds, you must also check in with your body. If it’s an outdoor event, ensure you get in the shade and are properly hydrated.
3. Balance Negative Thoughts
Listen to your thoughts, whether they are tense, anxious, or negative. If they are negative, balance them with an “and” statement affirming you are safe and okay.
Dr. Karin Ryan describes some examples of self-talk “and” statements:
- “There are so many people here, I feel overwhelmed, and I am okay. I can leave any time I need to.”
- “Everyone is walking so slow, I hate this, and I knew it would be like this; it is not hurting me.”
- “It is so crowded it makes me lightheaded, and I can sit down and relax a minute.”
- “It will be crowded, and I can handle it.”
4. Remember the Positive
Remember why you wanted to go to the event or are in the crowd in the first place. For instance, “I come to the fair and don’t mind dealing with the crowds because I love the giant slide, good food, and the community.” Or, “It is worth being in this crowded stadium to see my favorite team in person.” Focusing on the positive during chaotic moments can help reduce anxiety-related thoughts.
5. Take Breaks
Taking breaks in quieter or less crowded places is important when dealing with crowds. Find somewhere you can relax that’s not as crowded as the primary areas. Dr. Karin Ryan states, “It can be helpful to have your back against a wall. Sit under a tree or simply sit on a bench off the main roads.”
6. Have Support
Do not suffer in silence. Let those you are with know that crowds can be hard for you. They can check in with you and offer ideas or solutions to help. Don’t feel like you have to hide it.